While others use forms of control to manipulate, or undermine their partner. Often people enter into (or create) a toxic environment in their relationships unknowingly based on unhealthy learned patterns of behavior. When one, or both partners does not (or is unwilling) to communicate openly, listen, and show respect and compassion for their partner the relationship, it becomes toxic. Toxic relationships demonstrate intense conflict, turmoil and a lack of respect for one other. Relationships can become toxic for various reasons. Why do you think some relationships become toxic? In an LDR, talking about your day, sharing your thoughts and your intentions, lets the person know how you feel and allows them to gauge the quality of the relationship. Transparency is key in long distance relationships.Communicate as often as possible. Communication is one of the 6C’s of a healthy, loving relationship. Communicating with your partner allows you to share your thoughts, whilst also getting to learn more about your partner. Communication can be done over the phone, or via video chat if you’re far apart. However, in LDR, it is important to engage in active listening vs.Schedule quality time. If you live far apart or in another country this could be phone calls, video chats or traveling to see one another.
Here are a few healthy habits you can build if you are in a LDR:
People assume that LDR does not work because the individuals are separated by space and time. Yet, even relationships with couples living under the same roof, or in the same zip code break up. Long distance relationships can be challenging for some. While for others (such as people in high functioning careers) they work. What do you think about long distance relationships? What are some tips you would like to give our readers in a LDR? As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means that I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no cost for you.